wow I feel so inadequate in the sex aspect of my relationship. hubby left the tablet here when he…
wow I feel so inadequate in the sex aspect of my relationship. hubby left the tablet here when he back out on the road, i turned it on to check it out and decided to look at the internet history. he's been watching porn behind my back. I say behind my back because he knows how I feel about it and how it makes me feel when he watches it. so clearly he doesn't care about that anymore. no wonder he doesn't care to have sex anymore when he's home. he gets off while he's gone so why do it here right? why try to make me feel good right? I fucking hate porn with a passion and I made that clear to him when we first started dating two and half years ago. don't give me any of that "oh guys need blah blah blah" shit. fuck that opinion. I don't do things out of respect for him, and considering I just had his child, I deserve the same respect. but will I say anything to him? no because I'm sick and tired of arguing over something that's not going to change no matter my opinion. fuck men. they're such insensitive ass holes. rant over.
Kristina·
Мама сына-младенца
This topic is very sensitive. All relationships are different in that aspect. Sorry you're feeling the way you do. Try talking to him again, perhaps when you have calmed down. Think of things you are comfortable with that he can do that helps him. Reality is, it is hard for them to just sit on their bed and pleasure themselves looking at a wall. Perhaps find a photo of you that he likes?
pattalee·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mommastone, he's got dozens of pictures and videos of me on his phone. he literally has no reason or good excuse for watching it. the way I see it is, if he needs porn to be satisfied, I'm no longer attractive to him.
Kristina·
Мама сына-младенца
Hmm talk it out. Sometimes they mess up and go to bad habits just like us. Talk to him. But he probably won't appreciate you looking at the history like you were trying to find it. That may be a problem. Unless you weren't looking for it. I get it isn't fun to find but he may take it as you don't trust him and yes I totally understand your side as well. Maybe try to bring it up as you were trying to find something you looked at before and saw the porn. Perhaps talk it out as you understand him and he will understand you. I hope it all works out!