@newmommyamber, I know how u feel.... I am going through it...... my hubby has been hurting my feelings for the last 3 years.... it's hard not to think about the bad memories because he didn't make good memories with me not to think about it.... it's hard but trust in God He has good plans for everyone.....
@newmommyamber, the choice is yours darlin when you're ready you'll make the best choice... trust yourself
Ik but its easier said than done.i give my friends and family the same advice but its harder when its you. And ik karma has gotten a few people. Just wanna be away from other peoples bullshit and live in peace.
@newmommyamber, you do not have to if you do not choose to I just know that the hatred that can build up can be toxic for you... again it's not about the other person feeling better or justifying their poor behavior that's their crap to own trust me karma is nothing nice sometimes... consequences are natural and we all make our choices
Thank you guys so much @sparklymama and @marzuniversal. My biggest problem is that i dont forgive ppl.
forgiveness is for you not the other person when you are actively ready to work for peace of mind you will begin the process of forgiving it looks different for everyone
Of course. Forgiveness is one of the hardest things you might ever do. Being hurt isn't something everyone can just easily get over. You can do it. But it won't be easy.
It takes a while. At least, it can. It's a process. Not a one time thing usually.
@shananaginsx, I really want to but it's hard. sometimes I feel like things wont get better.
@newmommyamber, no problem:)