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Stephanie
Stephanie
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

***need someone's help*** My kids school is by their "fathers" house. So today when I go for them at…

***need someone's help*** My kids school is by their "fathers" house. So today when I go for them at my moms house my mom tells me that my oldest seen his dad at the park they have in the school for the kids.. I freaked because he's not in their lives he's always been a drunk & never has wanted to help financially even when I didn't work it was hard for him to give up money & if he did the most he'll give was less then 100$ for both sometimes even just 20$ that with two kids 20$ ain't shit!! But even like that I would still let him take the boys some weekends whenever he felt like taking them just because I didn't want to seem like a bad mom & let them be with their dad & have him in their lives, but I got so fed up that I stopped letting them go with him & he hasn't even bothered asking for them to take them on the weekends either which I don't care cus i can have my kids with me 24/7 my thing is he's in their birth certificate & without court order he can go for my kids at school even not being in the list & I'm scared that the teachers aren't going to be paying attention one day when the take one of them outside & he's gonna be around again and end up taking one of them & leaving from town with one of them which I know he's capable of. I know the best is to go to court and fight for custody & try and have him away from the kids but I don't know what are my chances of winning a case like that..

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Stephanie

Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

I got scared when my mom told me that he seen his dad by the park by his school. If he didn't know they're going there he definitely knows now & the last thing I want is a phone call from school saying someone taken my child/s @j.d-rose

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Stephanie

Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

Idk if I can have an order from the police station or if I'll have to open up like a case & go to family court @j.d-rose

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Stephanie

Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

I feel like it makes it harder for me cause he's on their birth certificate & I regret it a million times now.. But I have to figure what can be done cus I don't want him near my kids.. I already filled out the papers for child support just so I can be sent to court to try & see if I can get full custody of them & him as far away as possible.. @j.d-rose

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jamielynn07

jamielynn07

Мама подростка, беременна (37 нед.)

I'd just tell the school the situation. you are the legal guardian because they live with you 24/7. they should respect that.

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shananaginsx

Shannon 🌺💖

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You don't have full custody even though he doesn't see them?

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Stephanie

Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

I'll be talking to his teachers tomorrow to let them know what my son told my mom. Cause last time i went I spoke to the lady that's in charge of the list of pick up / drop off & she said since he's in the birth certificate & I have no court order that he can come get them if he tried @jamielynn07

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Stephanie

Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

I haven't been to court at all & I don't know if I have full custody regardless if he's in the birth certificate & since I have no court order saying I have fully custody so I wouldn't know how that goes @shananaginsx

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