I just need to vent for a second. We're expecting our fourth baby in September. I know four kids…
I just need to vent for a second. We're expecting our fourth baby in September. I know four kids isn't exactly common nowadays, but it's not unheard of. Ughhh....anyway. We waited a while to tell family. We told my mom right after we got the bloodwork back telling us it was a baby girl at 13 weeks. I just told family last week and was dreading it since things have been tense since my father passed away in November (long story, but his family all still try to make everyone feel their grief is the only grief and they are the only ones suffering). Now 17ish weeks, I just made the announcement official to FB friends/family. We know the gender and only a select few people know it. It will be a surprise for the rest. I've gotten some incredibly rude comments that I don't know if they are really rude, or its just the hormones. My hormones have been soooo out of control while pregnant and grieving.
"Was this baby planned?" "Well, hope it's a boy" "I can't believe you didn't want to tell your grandparents sooner" "my granddaughter refuses to tell me the gender". (My dad's mom is who said those things to me!)
"Just because you have a minivan doesn't mean you have to fill it"
"Are you trying to have a damn basketball team?"
"You really needed another?"
"This is a joke right?"
"Are you giving it up for adoption?"
😢
Candace·
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@ashleyjayne216, wth! No, I would be pissed at all those comments. Everyone should respect your decision! No matter what it is/what it's about.
Kristel 🎀·
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The last comments are annoying. I'm annoyed for you 😒
Jessie·
Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
Rude. Cut them off. We're on our 5th one and nobody has said things like that. Fucking rude.
Nesha·
Мама троих детей
this is my 4th baby and some ppl were happy but most weren't but fuck em they don't have to deal with your baby, if they are negative don't deal with it because you are already going thru enough being pregnant
Amber·
wow, how rude. because that's definitely the things you want to hear your friends/family saying about your unborn child....my mom wasn't happy with me when I told her I was pregnant. even though It is only my first pregnancy and I'm completely stable on my own. sorry you're getting these negative reactions
Nina·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
This is my 4th and 5th babies don't let no one put you down cut them out you don't need all that drama in your life I hope things get better for you
Alicia·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I'm due in August with my 4th. I understand how you feel. I got "wow, another" "you making a basketball team?" "WAs it a surprise?" Even my husbands parents think we are crazy, Thou they would never say so. Really it's no ones business. I'm happy, my husband is happy! That's all that matters! Congratulations to you!! I'll be happy for you ❤️
Ashley·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Thank you ladies. I'm just having a really hard time. We have always talked about a big family. And while 4 wasn't necessarily the plan, it wasn't out of the picture totally. I wasn't sure if these things were getting to me because of the hormones and grief or (to put it frankly) these people were being assholes. Ha!
Steph·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
I have 5 kids. People are always gunna judge u. Just remember it takes a special kinda woman to raise that many kids. Not too many women can handle it.