Ladies, is it just me or what? I feel like my man has little interest in everything we're getting…
Ladies, is it just me or what? I feel like my man has little interest in everything we're getting for our son. He has other kids, but you figure it'd be like starting over since this one's a boy. I'm so excited and I shop whenever i can. So I kind of expect him to get excited when I show him the stuff I end up buying or someone bought for us, but it's like...half-assed attention.
Katherin ✨·
Мама сына-младенца
My hubby was the same and still is, I've heard about other girls husbands/boyfriends being like this too! I guess it's a guy thing haha
Nichole·
Men are more thinking and stressing about money and how to support you and baby. That's what my husband said. I asked him why he isn't as excited as I am, it's our first, he said he is but it's a lot of pressure and responsibility for the man.
Raven·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
My boyfriend is the same way. I told him to at least pretend like he's excited. lol
nessielynn·
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Yeah it's alot of pressure and responsibility for the men... I totally get that. But atleast pretend your as excited as I am. I'm pregnant and my feelings are gonna get hurt. Like I dunno... it just makes me not wanna be around him much cause I'm just on a baby rampage. "We need this or I want that or what else can you think of that we need". I'm a ftm and just want the love and support and advice from him... I don't wanna feel like I'm depending on my mom for everything. @crusaderblue @greenlandnichole @evansmommy
Nichole·
Totally get it. I'm a ftm as well..and it kind of hurts my feelings sometimes.
nessielynn·
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like I'm kind of in tears... I know it's nothing and I know he's excited to finally have a son... it just hurts to feel like this @greenlandnichole
Rachel·
Totally understandable! My husband is this way but I know he means well. He told me that he will get things done with the house and he just installed in our master bedroom ceiling fan. We had the fan in the basement for almost two years. Being pregnant, it kicked his man duties in gear.
Amber·
My boyfriend has 3 other kids and sometimes he bounces back and fourth. He's excited and then the next day he's just like ehh whatever. It hurts my feelings but I don't say anything because I'm sure once she's here he's going to be all over her. I look at the way he is with his other kids and niece and I'm excited to see him with our daughter. Yesterday he was singing to my belly. Men are just strange when it comes to babies...in my opinion
nessielynn·
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yeah we're kind of in the middle of house searching cause we need a bigger place so I know he's preoccupied with that and he's stressed... but just pretend. show me the little bit of attention I'm asking for...it'll make you feel better lol. and yeah my man is the same way. He loves his daughters to death and he cosleeps with them when he can. He's a great father. I just want him to act like females fo when you show them stuff. Like if it were a girl, Oh Lord I'd be crying looking at everything. but nope, little boy. So I'm like "babe look at this. he's gonna be a little ladies man in that. he's gonna look spiffy in this" Figure he'd have some say in his son's stuff. Like your gonna have a "mini-me" get hyped! @rmcbuckeye @schu35
Amber·
@nessielynn, men just don't react the way we want them to. And because of my hormones I just cry when he doesn't say anything lol. When I showed him the Nuk I bought that said I love daddy he was very happy. And he is over the hill when he gets her Harley Davidson stuff lol go figure
nessielynn·
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I bought this on sale today. I thought it was frickin adorable. and cried when he didn't react the way I expected. @schu35
Amber·
@nessielynn, that is so cute! I love it
nessielynn·
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thank you! atleast someone agrees @schu35