I feel like we do talk about postpartum depression with women and how they go through a lot of…

I feel like we do talk about postpartum depression with women and how they go through a lot of changes. I think it's interesting that we do not try to understand men after they become a father. A lot of times people just assume that they either are lazy, don't want the baby, assholes, or whatever else you want to think. Have you ever considered a thought that maybe they are also trying to adjust to a new thing as well? And that maybe we should try to understand them more as well. I get that they didn't physically have a baby in their body and give birth to it. But I'm sure there's some type a psychological thing going on with them as well. Being a father can be scary to some even the ones that planned out having a kid. I'm just trying to throw out a perspective because I feel like a lot of women feel like their husband or spouse or boyfriend doesn't understand them or if they feel like their patent want to kid. But maybe it's just they're trying to adjust to a new life as well. Maybe they also need to get help or maybe they just need their significant other to understand them as well. But I see that it's hard because women have a lot of hormonal changes after birth so it is hard to think of the other person. That's why I feel like there's a lot of issues during pregnancy and after birth with couples. How about today if you feel like your spouse is having problems maybe ask them how they are doing. Women get a lot of help and try to be understood but men are assholes apparently. Just my two cents. Of course some may as well be but not all or most. They don't know how to deal with their thoughts just like you.