he cheated on me and now he wants a DNA test. he said the time isn't adding up. what the actual…

I went through the same thing and still do some days. I told him he would have to pay for it and prob take me to court to even get one done because I wasn't allowing it.

I'll give Him what he wants Just to see the stupefied look on his face and wait for my apology. @lindybee13

yeah he probably just wants out of the responsibility now that you're not together. I'd probably just do it too so he has no excuses

Yeah my family told me to do the same thing cuz they know my son is his and even his family knows they just think he's trying to get away from everything and everybody @double_mommy

y'all I'm so hurt. like seriously. we just lost one of our babies just last month and then he cheats on me! @amilo561 @lindybee13

:(:( that is so sad I'm really sorry, especially having to deal with it all during pregnancy. unfortunately it sounds like you and your baby will be much better off without someone like that in your lives. I know it's hard, but you still have a beautiful baby growing inside of you and you know you were faithful to him, which is better than being someone who cheats and doesn't want to show responsibility for his child

Yeah I know it hurts but you gotta do what's best for your baby and not let him bother you with his immature ways. @double_mommy

thank you ladies. I will do my best. @amilo561 @lindybee13

I'm sorry you have to go through that on top of the pregnancy, do it so you can make him look stupid when that test comes back saying that's his child. I'm emotionally drained from something similar. Just a month ago I found out a year ago, we had party and my so called "friend" and godmother of my daughter which clearly she's neither of those now took advantage that my husband was completely drunk and had smoked as well and seduced him and they had sex, in our car. To me being wasted is no excuse as I have been shit faced before and have NEVER cheated, so I blame them both equally. Then they both played it off as my husband said it meant nothing and he barely remembers so for this whole year they lied to my face. I have been crushed because my husband couldn't take it and came clean now that I'm pregnant it's too much to take in. And on top of it when I wrote the chick, I was NEVER mean nor disrespectful although I had every right, And she wrote me a bunch of things disrespecting me and throwing low blows acting like she's the victim. I wanted to kill her because this is not the first time she cheats on her husband while he's deployed she cheated on him with his best friend before multiple times, that we know of. I have been trying to work it out with my husband since he regrets it and wants to work it out but it's a lot to take in, especially while pregnant. But I'm trying to stay strong for my baby girl and this baby boy on the way. Keep strong sweetie you'll get through it! He will hopefully eventually realize the mistake he's making.

I hope so! I really love him and I want to work it out so bad. but after something like that, its really hard. I told him that I believe our love can get us through it but we need to work at it but for right now I'll stay in my lane because I don't need all the stress he's putting me under. on top of the fact that we lost a twin just last month. @karennn I don't want to lose this one too.

I understand you completely, and it is hard trust me. But it's best if you keep calm and relax for the sake of this baby so nothing happens too it. Too much stress can cause complications, I'm so sorry for your lost and for everything you're going through.