Когда начнутся настоящие схватки?

My due date is Wednesday the 20th and I am not having any pains or contractions either. I wish it would just come but I am so nervous also. It's my first baby! @olivia1

41 weeks and I know what u mean! I'm also having the stabbing pains in my lower area like in my vagina or something idk but it hurts. Comes and goes every other ,minute. :( I heard it's because our cervix is thinning out /dilating