So tired of everyone forgetting that I exist too. Im not just an incubator. It's always how's baby…

So tired of everyone forgetting that I exist too. Im not just an incubator. It's always how's baby Donnie doing? Or they have something to say about my high blood pressure or my migraines.. I have done everything I can to stop them, but there really isn't a whole lot I can do. But someone always has the comment you need to fix your blood pressure and migraines so he doesn't come early.. Like no, I was going to try to make them worse. Way to make me feel like more of a bad mom than I already do. Do people not think I want him to finish cooking and be healthy and happy??