So I'm embarrassed to post this but my sons dad gave me clamydia idk how to spell it! I took the pills and tested clean three times before I got married well tonight drinking I told my husband about it! He flipped treated me like crap so once he passed out I looked through his phone and he had a message from a girl on tues and apparently they were suppose to hang out I feel like crap this embarrassing thing from my past he treated me like dirt for and then I see this and I feel like I've been lied to my whole marriage I'm having an emotional break down and idk how to act what do I do?!?!
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Well the woman had no reason to lie to you. So I'm assuming it's true. But I'm sorry that you're going thru this. Being lied to by someone you thought you could trust 100% is hard. And bc he never confessed. Owned up to making out with her you'll never know if he's done it before or if this is his first time and he clearly didn't feel guilty about it or else he would have told you.
Yeah I just got done screaming at him.......... Said prove you didn't and I'll stay if not I'm out by morning @mamaash
@mamaash, @katarama @britany @anessafraga
Well I called the girl back of his phone she said you're his wife?!? He's married and I said yes with a new baby she said he was coming to her work they went on a date made out then she said he never contacted her again well her number was saved in his phone and he claims to not know her I told him to get me his messages from sprint for proof I feel lied to and he is acting like I'm being crazy
Yeah is he usually rude when he has been drinking? Even so though @mamaash is right he sent the message when he was sober so that's a whole different story.
You should be able to be 100% honest with your husband and not have to worry about him being rude like that. You don't need that! When he wakes up in the morning confront him about it.
He also went on to say well that's why it took us so long to get pregnant with our daughter 😭
Well idk why I told him I was drunk and just was being honest his response was I'm itchy after everytime we have sex so there was the first slap in the face plus he is so worried about me I can never talk to all my old guy friends! I went down stairs woke him up played the message and he went back to sleep I'm upstairs bawling taking care of our newborn he's downstairs passed out treating me like a disease and he's most likely been cheating on me while I think he's at work @mamaash @katarama @anessafraga idk why I trusted him 100%
That's very wrong of him to treat you that way. Things happen, and as others have said, it's not as if you gave it to him. He shouldn't be so judgmental over something that happened before he was your husband. As for the message, you need to bring it up. Say something to him because that is VERY not okay. Whether there is something actually going on or if they're just friends, it doesn't matter because he seems to be doing it behind your back and that's not right.
Say something about the message. You were being honest and it was before you two. Its not like you gave it to him. He is the one messaging a girl you have every right to say something.
I am so sorry you are going threw this! You are doing the right thing by leaving! He doesn't deserve you if hes going to be unfaithful. If you need anything you can message me whenever!