I'm so psst, I found out I'm having a surprise babyshower tonight. I said I didn't want a babyshower. I shouldn't even…

People are going out of their way to do something nice for you. The least you could do is show up and make the best of it.

I know what you mean because I don't want one my self but my SO wants one had one with both my kids and no one came spent the money my self to do them so I hope he don't do one I'll be mad as hell .

Look at it this way . You might get some nice thins for baby ! And hopefully it'll be over quick @peytonsmom22

nobody going out thier way for me, it's for them, @kaylynx3 . I said I didn't want one, they want one just to have a party

But you'll still get gifts out of it, and time with your family/friends.

exactly what @kaylynx3 said. look at the positives. and it could be worse.. you could be in my situation and have to drive 10 hrs to one bc your family is a few states away. lol.

Honestly, it would be postive, if family didn't act the way they did when I told them I was pregnant. My mother hasn't even acknowledge my pregnancy @jessicarose0602 and I'm almost 9 months,