I know I post about this alot lately but I'm seriously driving myself crazy, And I'm sure me…
I know I post about this alot lately but I'm seriously driving myself crazy, And I'm sure me stressing myself isn't good for Brinley what so ever.... But I'm terrified to bring up the fact I want to move back to Texas, I want Joe to come with me but I have a feeling since now there is Brinley involved this will go horribly, I just want to go home where I know I have a genuine support system and people that truly love us. I hate not being in an area I know which gives me horrible anxiety attacks😢 I just, I'm not ready to fight with him over it but we need to talk about it, every time I go to try my heart literally sinks to my stomach.
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@hermommy, Don't bring it up all at once, but try just bit by bit. Give him hints. Ask him how he'd feel to live somewhere else.
missing268user·
@theinkedmommy I will try that, I hate that I had to give up everything I knew to come be with him. I think its his turn but he wouldn't be giving anything up becAuse my family will actually accept him😢😢😢 it's so stressful
Rochelle ·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (39 нед.)
Have you brought up maybe visiting home? Maybe if you just "visit" he might like it after you show him around. While you're there you can slowly bring up if he would ever consider living in your hometown. If you made compromises to be there with him, he should too. He should at least visit and give it a trial run. It's whatever is best for your little one 😊
Heather·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
I did with my son when I found out my hubby is from TX I'm from Cali and as soon as I found out I was pregnant I moved home to my mom's my hubby came with me best decision I made just saying do what your gut tells you I didn't give my man a choice I was leaving eaither way he could stay or go he choose to leave with me.
missing268user·
@rochelleyayy he has visited before, I talk about going back all the time and he blows me off😢 he even saw the way i reacted to being home and how proud I was, I will try again though anything to get him to consider it so I don't have to leave him here
missing268user·
@mommyhammond2016 that's what I want to do, honestly I hate saying it but thats what will happen. I just need to get a job now and save all of my Money to do so, I just want him to come with me so bad we could have a better life
Heather·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
idk about you but k had a hard time thinking that my man was going to stay and be away from his kid I would definitely have a serious chat about it and let him know that's where you want to be and where you feel the most comfortable
missing268user·
@mommyhammond2016 I have a bad feeling he is going to try and take her from me, idk why but my gut feeling is he will stay and take me to court and considering I have anxiety and depression that scares me severely
Heather·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
oh no :( well I hope it all works out