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Jess·Мама дочки (9 лет)

My SO and I don't agree with his father and stepmother's religious views. We're complete opposites. I'm sure it'll eventually be an issue (I hope Im wrong though) but for now I like them. They love our daughter to death. Always offer to babysit for free if we need it and stuff. Today they bought her a ton of baby food and told us to save the jars when she finishes them because his stepmom is going to make more baby food herself to put in the jars. They're very nice people.

13.04.2016
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Jaymie M·Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)

religion separates us, God brings us together. if your not interested, okay. don't let them force you. they should pray for you instead. call Him what you want, Jehovah, yaweh or god, He will always remain the same. His love for you will always be there.

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embersandash
Jess·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@kelseys, I'm hoping it'll be fine. It's never been a problem with us so I'm hoping they just leave it alone with her unless she decides to ask about it. If she asks then tell her what you believe and let her choose. I'm really hoping it goes that way. As of right now we all just leave it alone like if we have dinner together they pray and we wait until they finish. They don't try to get us to join and we wait patiently until they finish.

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Kelsey Sanchez·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

that's a boundary that shouldn't be over stepped. my mom doesn't understand why we don't celebrate anything, and she doesn't ask questions, just goes completely against it and tries to give it a bad name in front of our children. my oldest who is four, only knows that there is Jehovah, and what we've thought him, and my mom gets mad when he says like "when I'm scared I say Jehovah, because all the monsters are scared of him" which if your a bible reader you would understand. but if your not religious and they are, they can sometimes be a little pushy when it comes to putting in on children or even your husband and you. just be firm in your decision to or not to be religious when they ask or try to bring it up.

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embersandash
Jess·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@kelseys, My SO and I are not religious at all while his father and stepmom are very religious. For now it's no big deal. It would only be a problem if they push their beliefs onto our daughter

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kelseys
Kelsey Sanchez·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

as long as they respect your religious views and you guys do the same to them, then it shouldn't be a problem. My mom was baptized Catholic, but doesn't "practice" which is just an excuse for her to do whatever she wants that's bad, where as my husband and I and my in laws are Jehovah's witnesses. my mom doesn't respect it any always has something negative to say because we don't celebrate holidays or birthdays.

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