I seriously hate being questioned by my in laws with every decision I make. Ugh. MIL got kind of…

I seriously hate being questioned by my in laws with every decision I make. Ugh. MIL got kind of pissy at me when I said I was giving my niece (9months old) my oldest son's crib. I told my sister she could have it when she was pregnant with her last year. I don't break promises and I I felt like I was getting attacked over the issue. To make it worse SO came home with and butt dialed her 4mins into our conversation and she heard me say she pissed me off and then he noticed he was on the phone with her. oh of fuck sakes; now I have to deal with her when she gets back. I don't need it for my new baby (we co sleep) also I have no room for a standard crib in my son's room.