Birth Plan Rant

I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?

AM I THE ONLY ONE

Who feels like when I'm on the highway traveling and me and a car follow eachother for awhile, I feel like we are friends and when they exit I get sad?!? Because if I'm not the only one who feels like this then I have the BEST story of my life for you.

Will your Mom be in the delivery room?

My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.

I can’t believe some of you get on birth control like right... right after giving birth. I’m going to need time to heal before I do anything else to my body

Who has been knocked out for surgery ? I'm super nervous and it's my first time going under. I will be asleep for a septoplasty my nose turbinates are swollen and my septum is deviated. I need to be able to breath , stop getting pain and a full ear feeling , crackling noises and sinus infections I will have recovery time for a week and some pain meds I just need some advice and to lessen my anxiety.