So I am thinking about doing labor alone. I would like my mom and husband there, but that will never…

I would think the father should be there with you as well. It's an important moment for you and him. But in the end result I do not know your situation so do what you think is best. :)

It's your big day remember that and the decision is ultimately up to you.. Do what will make you happy regardless of what anyone has to say!💙

@mrspavlides, we aren't currently together, he kicked me out and my entire family hates his guts right now. I just don't want any fights to happen. @mommywhit2 It's so much easier said then done, but I'm doing my best!

What if you just have your mom? Then you have some support at least. If I were in your shoes I wouldn't really want husband there, just with everything he's done. Unless or until he apologizes and truly changes his ways, I wouldn't be okay with that.

I understand. Well in the end result your decision. Blessings to you. :)

@mommarodey, I was thinking bout that, but I just don't know. And I don't think he will ever apologize. He says he wants to be here for Donnie, but hasn't really shown it. But I am also not the type of person who will keep a person from their kids for no reason.. It's super frustrating lol

if the problem is with your husband right now then don't have him in there. I really want to say regardless he should bc it's a moment you can never get back. BUT at the same time if I was in your position I would be extremely hurt bc he didn't think of you and the baby when he told you to leave. if you feel like your mom is going to bring him up that day just talk to her ahead of time. you're going to need someone there for you I promise. it's not something you should be doing alone. good luck(:

@lucyyxoxo_, Yea, I really do see both sides.. It just really sucks having to make the decision. And thank you.

give it some time. it's not something you need to make a final decision on now. do what's best for you..

@mommarodey, Yea, that's what I was thinking about doing. I just keep thinking about what's best for him instead of me. And it's starting to piss me off lol