I can't stand the mommy wars. It's the "I breast feed so formula fed mothers are horrible. I'd never give formula to my kids" It's the "you're anal because you chose to give your kids routine and I choose flexibility and non routine." It's the "I would never put my child in daycare therefore you should feel guilty for not being able to stay home." I think some moms need to stfu already. Everyone's individual choice for how to parent and raise their kids is their choice. There are reasons they do the things they do and it should not be of anyone else's concern especially not to belittle or make the mom feel bad for choosing what they have chosen. If you breast feed great. If you formula feed great. If you put your kids in daycare great. If you don't cool. If you have a planned routine for your kids nice, if you choose no routine that's fine. The point is stop judging other mothers bc they choose something different than you. Me personally I chose to give my daughter a strict routine since birth and have had no problems with her sleeping or eating. Yet I have found myself being criticized so many times by people who don't use routines calling me anal etc... I am sick of the mommy wars. I don't judge other moms for their choices so those people who have criticized me should not either.