Cried my first real tears today , baby first day home and it did not go too well . I swear my bf doesn't know how it feel to be a new mother and hear your baby crying and you don't know what to do cause you can't give him what he wants
What's worse is the crowd that tried to help and makes it worse baby needs you not them my husband says somethings and I'm like I'm MOM and mom knows k
I hate hearing him cry so hard cause I get scared he is gonna choke or something @mimiz but I cried because my bf didn't understand why I had to give my son formula . He just kept saying no he wasn't going to get the formula so I went out to get it on my own
Oh no I wasn't going crazy , I was calm telling him it was okay but it's just frustrating to have everybody in your ear while your trying to calm your baby down
Totally! It's hard love but listen when baby starts to freak (better said than done) breathe and don't freak out my daughter literally screams and I look at her for a second to gather my thoughts just stare at her and then I talk to her tell her I'm here and I love her breathe and really just look to see why she's getting frustrated it's scares my heart but it's helped me so much it is so hard but you NEED to gather yourself before trying to help ❣