I swear to god if my mom tells my grandmother one more damn thing about me or my daughter I'm going…

I swear to god if my mom tells my grandmother one more damn thing about me or my daughter I'm going to flip!! My grandmother hasn't spoke to me or even asked about the baby since I told her I was pregnant at 6 weeks, but yet she has the nerve to ask my mother if she can be there when my child is born!! My own mother doesn't even have a say as to who can and can't be there! Pisses me off! && she also told my grandmother when my baby shower is! She obviously didn't know in the first place for a damn reason!!! 😡😡