I kinda have a dilemma a few weeks ago I was all up for wanting to mess around with my husband we…

Just talk to him, he should understand and if you're worried about labor or feel pain afterward I would contact your doctor and see what advise they can give you

I tried to talk to him and he just got mad and rolled away from me I'm only 34 weeks and I just have a pain down there and idk why it hurts but it hurts to put on pants he's been bugging me do anything sexual with him and i just can't get into the mood I feel like he's gonna go else where I just can't shake the feeling idk maybe it's the pregnancy @eswitzer31

that's tough but he needs to understand that ur worried about yalls child .. if he can't n he was to go somewhere else to get it then he isn't the person you need to be with anyways ..

Pregnancy effects everyone differently and your hormones are all out of wack so try not to get down on yourself. I'd call your doctor though about your pain, it could be nothing but better safe than sorry

@lovemiithree, idk if he's messing or what I told him that I mean he keeps changing his mind on when he wants to sleep with me and when he dosent so idk what to do

I'm the same way. I can't get in the mood. And when I am I don't enjoy sex at all!!!! The only way I do, is if I take care of myself (he doesn't know) I've talked to my partner and he says he understands but I can definitely tell he's been frustrated. It's the pregnancy. Before I got pregnant I wanted it all the time now I can't stand the idea of sex.

@eswitzer31, thank you @t142 yea I was the same way and I was fine till the other day after we had sex like I was all up for going and he wouldn't go and it just seemed like he didn't want to go any longer I haven't been bugging him about it cause ik having sex with me grosses him out right now I understand that bit he sees it as he needs to get off that's the only reason I just don't know I never had this problem with my two older kids

You don't have to have sex to tend to his needs....lol 😊

@babymama85, ik I just can't in the mood to do anything sexual with him it's just uncomfortable and I just feel werid doing it

Every woman is different and sex during pregnancy is uncomfortable sometimes... I love sex lol probably more then other women during pregnancy... But if your experiencing pain during intercourse then it's safer for you and baby if you don't have sex... As for him he needs to grow the fuck up (excuse my language) and not be putting you in uncomfortable situations you only have a few more weeks till your baby is here and then after your six weeks of healing he can get some... Just relax momma 😘

@lynna0909, thanks yea that's what I told him