I need some advice ladies my step daughter is two years old about to be three I'm due in May she is…
I need some advice ladies my step daughter is two years old about to be three I'm due in May she is coming with her grandparents in June to see the baby long story short me and my husband split for a couple years and he ended up having a baby with someone else. Sooooo when they come in June her mother wants us to stay with her for two months 😫 now I wouldn't mind but being that I would have a newborn and I haven't done this for 13 years since my son I wouldn't have any help her dad works second shift and he leave everyday at 1pm I don't want to be mean but I think now is just not the time for her to come and stay am I wrong ? I think she should go back with her grandmother when they return home but her mother keeps pushing the fact that she wants us to stay with her for the summer! I feel frustrated I don't want problems between me and Hubby I just don't know how to express to him that it's going to be too much for me right now 😖😫 ps. She doesn't listen for crap she is at that age that she doesn't sit down
Kimber miller·
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I would just stay strong in that you know you would be overwhelmed. Your husband should understand you can't take on a kid that isn't even yours when you have a newborn. That is asking a lot
julissa·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (40 нед.)
I would say no!!! u have a newborn that's urs an u need space an that lady should know that an so should the father if the kid!! he needs to put his foot down also an say no until u are okay with being with a 2 year old!!! if I was in that situation I would call her an tell her straight not in a rude way but in a way she gets the point!! just saying
Evelyn·
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@kimberkatherine, @juli85336 thanks ladies I'm gonna sit and talk with him and express how I feel hopefully he can understand earlier today he told me I know it's gonna be a lot for you so maybe I'll go get her in September when our baby is a little older and your not so exhausted ect. I just hope me telling him he doesn't think it's because I don't want her here ect because that's not the case it's just honestly a lot to handle and I don't think I'll be ready to run after her during he day getting up at night and having to take care of the house I want to be able to sleep when the baby sleeps so I can catch up on rest 😐
Kimber miller·
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just tell him exactly that then :) he should understand @jaydensmom