did anybody have a baby born at 35 weeks and 3 days, and have sucking problems and go home the day you got discharged?
my baby was born at 40 weeks and had poor muscle tone which transfered to his oral muscles. it was a long haul. I nursed exclusively. I had to pump on one side to get a let down because his suckling reflex was so poor. eventually my milk dried up and we had to use this contraption that clipped onto my shirt and a tube ran down over my nipped so that he could still get nutrients that way. We also did speach and physical therapy pretty early and his oral muscles eventually caught up
but all babies need to practice the suckling and swallowing mechanism at first so it might just be tough for your baby at firsy