So I moved out of my mom to start a life with my bf which is good & all but the only down side to…

That's ridiculous girl don't deal with that bullshit you deserve better! @aldensmommy

I know but I keep thinking maybe after the baby he'll stop knowing dam well if he cared he would've stop already idk what to do & when I confront him I can't even speak because I get so emotional @mommytoaiden

@mommytoaiden, step one is taking that step as hard as it is! So many what ifs.."what if he stops before baby" "what if he doesn't and "accidentally" drops baby" if he wants to be apart of babies life and yours then you might have to show him your serious! Just my opinion, it's not that you don't love him you just love your child more! Good luck we are all here to support you!

Your absolutely right @hlanc4 and thank you

Wow at least he did change which is good & my bf got arrested for drinkin and driving has to attend classes but hasn't even gone because there so pack they haven't called him but like to me after him getting arrested he would've changed but no doesn't learn I love him he a good man he works hard and finical supports me because I lost my job but just because I'm not doing good am I going to put up with him no I can't he has a drinking problem and won't admit to it @daniellediane

@aldensmommy, I picked up and left I warned my Ex 3 times if he didn't get his shit together that I was leaving. Well, just like a typical manchild. I have to show this fool better than I could tell him. After that last ultimatum. I looked for a place, used my savings for the deposit. I packed up all my shit, and moved changed my number, went to child support. Honey, don't sit around waiting for a man to change that will be the biggest mistake of your life. it only gets worst. Mentally remove yourself up out the situation than ease out. You don't need a man staying out on you FUCK THAT! You and your baby deserves baby. Good Luck Hun! :)

I know that's the right thing to do but its hard & I'm just so fed up and then again I don't wanna give up but in order for him to see that I'm not playing no more I have to leave him @simbamama

@aldensmommy, people will never change unless they want to change!! Luckily my bf wanted to and stopped the excessive drinking but ive had plenty of experiences in my life where they choose their addiction over u.... And im sorry but it sounds like hes an addict. Ure best bet for ur mental and emotional health and the health of ur baby is to leave.... Make him realize ure serious and u wont tolerate it.... A lot of ppl continue to do things when they know no matter what theyre always gonna have u.... Maybe u need to show him he wont. Good luck honey and be strong

You're doing the right thing

@aldensmommy, I know it's hard but you need to be strong.