When your baby daddy rather go with your sister to a smoke kickback then to be with you while you're…

Seriously dont know how your okay with that in the first place, i think id freak out. lol

Overtime I got use to him not being here so it's nothing new lol

I hope things get better for you, and you see that your worth so much more then that! @daedaee93

Thank you so much @laina14 and I just feel like I use my feelings and emotions when it comes to him. Like I wouldn't know how to feel if I didn't look out for him and plus I feel like I would be letting his dad down because his dad always say take care of my son for me and look out for him. But after my little emotional breakdown I had just about enough of looking out for him and caring. I see all he do is use me and take my kindness for weakness and I'm done

Theres only so much you can take, and do for a person! Its obvious you have a big heart, and are very kind, but dont let him walk all over you girl. You tried and thats all you can really do, i know its always easier said then done, but think about your future, and your babies. i would never want my baby around someone like that. @daedaee93

Yeah you right I tried putting him out so many times numerous occasions because he's staying with me at my moms I told him I don't want him here no more but he never leaves. And it's like I don't know why he won't leave he broke up with me 9/11 been single for 7 months I don't know what he's planning on doing but I feel like he's up too something. He doesn't even put us first all he rather do is get high with my family and let us be alone for hours I just know I deserve someone that will appreciate me I know God has someone in stores for me and I'm thinking that's why my bd not trying to go his own way but I had enough I'm only 22 I'm young been dealing with him for 8 years now it's time for a change

yes very young to be dealing with this, i would put my foot down and tell him too leave, that your done being there for him, and you dont want him around. you can do this! its always hard at first, but its obvious your a very stong beautiful woman! i hope everything turns out great for you, and you will find someone who truly appreciates you. @daedaee93 when your going thru a rough patch in life, things can only get better from there. :)

@daedaee93, ain't no way! and they was gone that long...oh nawl! let me ask u some... Do they chill without you often?

@natalie86, of course because my sister smokes really everyone i stay with smoke so if he's not with my sister and her guy friend then he's smoking with my brother. And they came back at 2 in the morning they was at his cousin house our homegirls. So yeah 9/10 he not with me till its time to go to sleep or just to come in the room to get something and check on me

@daedaee93, I know the feeling!! But my fiance doesn't smoke with my sister only with my brother at home.

@jovromero, he smokes with whoever got the weed honestly lol