anyones dont get along so well with their mother law? in this pregnancy i just feel like i dislike…
anyones dont get along so well with their mother law? in this pregnancy i just feel like i dislike her .. she spoiled the hell out of my son since birth and always held him 24/7 so now he never listens and tries to get his way .. im pregnant with my first little girl and i feel like after i have her shes gonna wanna hold her and i really dont want that happening.. my son would be crying for nothing and she goes and picks him up or babies him or she keeps my sons clothes and i just feel shes gonna do the same with my daughter.. anybody related to this? or what should i do? i just dont want her holding my daughter 24/7 after i have her or picking her up without my permission. but i just dont wanna hurt her feelings or get her upset.. plus i live with her.
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
I could never feel that way.That to me is the best feeling in the world. I don't feel I should have to give her permission to pick my kids up and spoil them, that's a grandmas job. But I can also see how everyone is different and that might be a huge pet pev to some people. I would just try talking to her about how you feel
Brittany Gonzales·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (26 нед.)
i know i really dont wanna be mean but sometimes she just over does things or goes over the border with it so yeah maybe i should try talking to her about it. my son is 2 almost 3 and he shouldnt be getting held and ahe would sometimes pick him up or she would just yell at my son .. i under stand grandmas job is to spoil them but she goes way too far. she just dislikes how me and my hunny parent our son and im afraid its only gonna get worse :( ill always have respect for her and i thank her for everything she has helped me with but she just tries to do things her way or gets upset and sometimes she wont let me or my hunny raise our son our way and my hunny gets so mad cause his mom just doesnt let us :/