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Rai Wilson
Rai Wilson
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

I hate that pregnancy has became a joke. People will fake posts about being pregnant just to get…

I hate that pregnancy has became a joke. People will fake posts about being pregnant just to get people to laugh, will make fun of those being pregnant, will act like pregnancy is a disease. So many women struggle to get pregnant, many have lost their children, & cant conceive at all. Its not a joke or a curse to be pregnant. I wish men & especially other women would be more considerate. Think about what you post or make fun of. & honestly I never really thought anything of it until I became pregnant & now I can't imagine the pain some might feel when they see things like that online. I know I would be hurt badly.

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jesjeslovesyou

Jes

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Lmao! So people joke about THEMSELVES being pregnant and it's an issue? They're not saying "hey, Sally who has been trying to get pregnant for ten years is finally pregnant... JK!". People shouldn't take what other people say about themselves so personally. Just because one person can't get pregnant doesn't mean others should walk on egg shells to please them.

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jesjeslovesyou

Jes

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That's no ones issue but their own. People are so narcissistic these days. The world really doesn't revolve around them and their feelings.

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mommyrai

Rai Wilson

Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

@jesjeslovesyou, you can't possibly be this ignorant ?

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jesjeslovesyou

Jes

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Ignorant towards what? I'm ignorant towards a lot of things just as you are- everyone is, lmao. But definitely not ignorant about people who should just mind their own business and stop thinking everyone should be careful about what they say. People joke about all types of things. If you have a SO on Facebook hope you don't post about him. That could offend someone who's SO has passed or isn't around. If you have kids then talking about how hard it can be sometimes should never be discussed either as some people don't have the ability to make kids so why complain about how difficult having them can be? Anything can offend someone.

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mommyrai

Rai Wilson

Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

God forbid you lose your child. Its hurtful to people. Whether its about yourself, your next door neighbor, or someone across the world. Its not a joke. Put yourself in other peoples shoes.

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mommyrai

Rai Wilson

Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

@jesjeslovesyou,

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mommyrai

Rai Wilson

Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

Im not arguing with a ignorant comment like that. Thats fine hun. 🙄 @jesjeslovesyou

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jesjeslovesyou

Jes

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Don't argue mama😉. It's not good for you.

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mommyrai

Rai Wilson

Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

😘 @jesjeslovesyou

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newmommy0906

newmommy0906

Even though her presentation of her statement was harsh I sort of understand where she is coming from. Let me see if I can put it in a better way. Not being able to have a child for some is heart wrenching, but when people joke about being pregnant (like the tons of April fools jokes I have seen) it is not to belittle those who can't have children and it shouldn't be viewed as such. I get that the non ability to bear is devastating but joking about pregnancy shouldn't be viewed as an insult. If this is so there are tons of other things we should stop doing for the sake of others feelings. Several examples include. Calling a black child monkey as a nick name. Even though it doesn't seem racist or hurtful to some the experience of being called a monkey has always been negative so since others feel negative about it everyone should? People with diabetes can't eat certain things because it affect their sugars and can ultimately affect their life. Should people not joke about eating candy or tons of sugar? Fat people are shamed on a regular for being well fat. Should skinny people stop joking about how fat they look ? Same with homosexuality and transgender. People are murdered for being transgendered. Should people stop dressing up as the opposite sex for Halloween. My post is to give insight on what I think jesjes meant. Not to ridicule any mother bearing or not :).

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mavislogan

Mavis

I honestly think some things shouldn't be joked about but people in general are ass holes and very few if any care if what they say causes you grief.

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