I ENVY all the ladies who have extra help with the little ones. I need a break from my Son. In the…
I ENVY all the ladies who have extra help with the little ones. I need a break from my Son. In the whole year that he's been born, my husband and I have been on ONE DATE! I need mommy time or time with just my husband. I'm literally losing my sanity. So before you complain that your mother is annoying or your MIL when it comes to baby, just be greatful they are their and willing to help. Because right now, I'd love to be in your position. 🙏
Brittany·
Мама дочки-младенца
I'm feeling particularly overwhelmed today, too. I'm married but my husband works nights so basically everything is on me (because when he's not working, he's sleeping) and I just want to break down in tears today. 😢 @nichole_lynn
rano·
Мама сына-младенца
I know what u talking about. Same thing here. 5 months 24/7. Im not complaining, Im enjoying the time with my son, but sometimes I just want to feel myself As I used to be. Just to leave the house for 1 hour. Im sooo jealous when I hear that they have moms who can help. 😁😁😁
Bonnie·
Мама дочки-младенца
my daughter is 6 months, and I've never been away longer than 15 minutes cause I was running laundry downstairs lol!! totally understand... we haven't had a 1 on 1 date, but she comes with when we go to a restaurant once a week (:
missing330user·
Мама сына-младенца
Girl, don't be afraid to, sometimes its needed, I've done it twice this week. @adorableavasmommy I'm in the same boat as you, but my husband works 4am to 7pm and he basically comes home to eat and sleep. it's so hard!!
missing330user·
Мама сына-младенца
but the worst part is my husband and I have no "us time" and sadly, our marriage is becoming stressful and we constantly fight. @babyboy1202 @kattastrophe due to not having time to spend with each other. it might not be the same for everyone, but its taking a toll on my marriage (not my son at all, we are thankful for him)
Brittany·
Мама дочки-младенца
@nichole_lynn, I broke down today while peeing on the toilet 😂😂😂 I'm just particularly edgy today I guess because I am transitioning my daughter into the pack and play from her swing sleeping and I have no one to share the night time responsibilities with... 😕
missing330user·
Мама сына-младенца
yeah that transition period is tough! @adorableavasmommy you'll get it momma! I promise 💙 sending positive vibes your way!
Bonnie·
Мама дочки-младенца
even though we don't have any kind of babysitter, and my daughter cosleeps, we still find time for us. we don't go out alone, but we still find a little cuddly mommy daddy time. she just has to play in her jumper or hang out with some toys in the crib.... I'm not talking about a long time, just 10-15 minutes and we never leave her crying. we have a good emotional connection still too, communication has always been important to us though
missing330user·
Мама сына-младенца
we use to be like that, but it got harder as he got older and started walking and getting into everything and destroying the house. my life is a mess 😂 @kattastrophe
Bonnie·
Мама дочки-младенца
do you have a pack n play maybe? I'm going to have to get creative when my daughter starts walking too lol!!
missing330user·
Мама сына-младенца
its at his grand parents house, he has his crib but he literally throws fits if hes not able to move around haha. he's a real handful! @kattastrophe
Bonnie·
Мама дочки-младенца
you might want to get the pack n play from the grandparents lol!! that's the only thing I can think of so far! I'll be there in another few months, we just hit crawling.... there has to be something else you can use though...hmmm
Christie·
Мама сына-младенца
Our parents both live out of state so I hear ya. Honestly part of why I joined this app is to try to find momma friends to do things with and maybe trade off watching kiddos. @nichole_lynn
missing330user·
Мама сына-младенца
that's why I joined too @sea528 but its been tough lol I hope somewhere down the road it gets easier.
Christie·
Мама сына-младенца
Haha well I know our little ones are a ways apart but if you ever wanna get together let me know. We could wonder a mall or something in this heat lol
missing330user·
Мама сына-младенца
haha perfect! thank you 💙💙 @sea528
Christie·
Мама сына-младенца
No problem! We don't do too much right now. It would be good for me to get out of the house too @nichole_lynn