A lot of times familys clash when a baby brings them together in blood. Mainly the mothers of the father and mother of the baby. Its always a jealousy act.

Well I used to be not so much anymore.. I'm 20, in college, have been engaged, live on my own with my fiancé, but I wasn't married when I got pregnant ever since then she had been against me and my fiancés family.. She's not really someone you can talk with because she's one of those older people who think that because she is an elder nobody younger than her is right and if you don't agree with her you're the problem.. Guess I'll just have to cut her out then. @twinscomingsoon

@waylonsmommy252, are you close with your grandma? Maybe sit down and have a serious conversation with her and tell her her behavior is a bad apple in your basket right now and she needs to make a choice to either put her childish aside of one day for you and the baby or not come because it's not fair to you who hasn't done anything to deserve that. Sometimes you have to be the bad guy. But in doing that it's the only way you'll get to enjoy your day and your baby.

I agree I just don't want to seem like the bad guy.. Why can't people just put their crap aside and realize it's not about them and it's about the baby! @gingermama @twinscomingsoon

I'd tell her she isn't welcome until she can act like an adult.i probably wouldn't let her see the baby either considering she wants to be a child. That's so petty of her.

Cut her off until she learns how to respect you and act like her age instead of acting younger than your unborn child.. Thats what I did. Solved my problem.