Rant: I'm so over it!!! my SO just said to me that if I go into labor the weekends we have the kids that if I want him at the hospital the kids will be there too.. for 1 a hospital is no place for a 5,3,and 18month old! 2. I said no and he got mad there is no reason to get mad because I don't want 3 screaming unoccupied kids in the room while I'm laboring or delivering a baby.. and if they are occupied they will be by him and I need him to help me with the laboring positions, but he also wants me to get an epidural which I've told him I'm going to try my hardest not to get and he keeps pushing it on me.. so I say fuck it if you can't accept my wishes then stay at home with your 3 other kids and miss another birth! he's made it clear more then once that "this one child can't replace the other 3" I've never asked for our son to replace his kids I just asked for our son to seem at least as important as the other ones but fuck it I'll go through labor like I did most of the pregnancy . ALONE!