this is a strange questions and tmi big time....but has anyone else felt like their wooha is…

this is a strange questions and tmi big time....but has anyone else felt like their wooha is stretched? like the area baby comes out is the best way to put it open more then normal? there hasnt been any "fun time" for well over a month now cuz it hurts so bad but when i sit it feels different than normal also discharge has became alot more in the past week or so...dont go back to the dr till the 22nd and dont wanna call them for a seeming stupid question. 30 weeks atm