again not to be patronising lol but if you breastfeed then caffeine goes through your milk! you do find this magic way to keep going though, it's just frustrating sometimes. have you got a supportive partner?
yep. I used to f%*'ing hate it when people said that to me, so patronising, but it is true it gets worse after the baby is born :( sleep is a thing of the past! I'm lucky to get more than an hour at a time!