Hello ladies. I need your help. I am battling if I should keep trying or just stop trying. This past…

Hello ladies. I need your help. I am battling if I should keep trying or just stop trying. This past month I did everything by the book and it seems like it's not happening for me. I don't know if it's me or my boyfriend(his or mine age) that has the issue,but neither one us has the money to get tested. All I know is right now I am really disappointed because this is something we really wanted and we have been trying. Im not the type to ever give up on something that I've wanted. And we've been trying(from researching online to buying the necessary vitamins and test strips to when is the best tike to do the baby dance). I really some advice or something to keep me motivated.