My mother in law completely took over my baby shower and changed all the plans......but it's ok my mom is going to throw me one now so I'll get two,which I didn't want but oh well I'll be happier and so will everyone else. ...but it still kinda aggravated me that my mother in law took it upon herself to invite all of her family which not even my husband wanted there and left practically no room for my family, after asking for my guest list for that matter. ....just ready to go to bed and forget it all. ....it's not right to say one thing then reneg on it but hey what is will be I guess......