it's hard to talk then into counselling because alot of them just want to feel normal instead of being told there's something wrong

Yes, my baby's father has it bad after coming home from deployment :(

I have it also

I have PTSD

ask if he will go if you go with him

@queenwatson, I have before and trust me if he doesn't get help it will only get worse. my ex was in the military 15 years and he was honestly 2 different people, especially when alcohol was involved, it was like he was possessed...have him check with a councilor through the military there should be a support line or battle buddy he can talk to about it that is super confidential...if not find somewhere you both can go and talk to someone that way he knows it's effecting you and maybe he'll think about it and go fourth with everything at his own will. good luck girl, and I hope everything turns out well. ❤

@babyboy528, do you know of a good way to convince someone with PTSD to get help? Ever since my husband got back from deployment , more and more he seems to be showing signs of PTSD but idk how to help him.

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