what should I do?? I have a son to the same guy as my baby... he pressured me into abortion filled…
what should I do?? I have a son to the same guy as my baby... he pressured me into abortion filled my head with false hope .. I chose too keep the baby... he wants nothing at all too do with this baby ever (so he has been saying) going off at me wen people mention it too him ect but yet still comes round and sees his son n will be there for his son!! do I let him n my son still have their father son relationship and pretend this baby is nothing to him or do I put my foot down n be a bitch n tell him too stay away from us if ya can't be there both ur kids then goodbye...
peanut2016115·
mind u he even went as far as saying he would leagally adopt my oldest child n be her dad if I got rid of it... and give me another baby if I waited for him to sort his shit out...
Nicole·
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He might have a change of heart when baby is born. Sorry you have to go through this :(
peanut2016115·
that's what I'm thinking too I mean he was the first too ask wen I am due but only wanted too no so he could leave town that week and then asked what I'm having n has tagged me in baby stuff on fb but goes mental wen someone says I hear ya gna be a dad agaim
Shivonne·
I feel like he's just really angry that you didn't get the abortion, don't they all say it's a lot different when the baby is here? But I think let him keep doing what he's doing and if he still doesn't want anything to do with the baby when she/he arrives then it's completely his loss, you just need to make sure the baby knows how much of a horrible person he is for not wanting anything to with his own flesh and blood because you wouldn't destroy the life growing inside of you! You can do it Hun, with or without him. You just need to prove to him that you don't need him around to 'be dad'. He honestly doesn't deserve to be a dad in my eyes, but I hope everything works out for you xx
peanut2016115·
I understand he has issues of his own ect but how can u be there for one kid but not the other... like wen he comes to see his son the baby is gna be here too... what does he expect me too hide her...
Nicole·
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Even men who wanted there partner to get pregnant sometimes become distant and aren't interested at all but as soon as that baby is born it's a completely different story. You don't need to hide her, just go about how you usually would and soon enough he will want to hold her because he will realise. Don't stress too much about it Hun x
Evie Henderson-Young·
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Give him a chance to change but if not he can fuck off in my opinion.
laura·
u gota do what u want, abortions are mentaly neva healing, im not against them, but do what u want! ur body and mind, dnt do what he wants just coz. . he isnt the 1 that has to go frew it.
peanut2016115·
I'm keeping my baby im a day off of 29weeks I've decided he can go play in the train tracks he comes here thismorning sucking up with maccas for me n kids I fed mine too the dog lol