he is definitely cheating on you......i am sorry, i have experienced that, they wait till you fall asleep, so you don't bug them who they are talking too.....I cought my bf too, i decided to confront him, and he still lied...so i told him, if he wants to flirt and i will go...and he beg me to stay....because i love him i stayed...now he changed, he is more faithful than ever........

It is according to the relationship. My Uncle does it and my Aunt doesn't care. My husband never would though. He doesn't even look at other women and that was his choice.

@mommybump2016, had this convo with my bf in the beginning of our relationship because he thought the same way, that it was harmless. I told him no its not, it messes with people emotionally. and its disrespectful toward your partner, and I'm sure he wouldn't like you flirting with anyone. its a 50/50 thing, give and take

@tarateller2010, @alexmarietx thanks ladies! I just wanted to make sure I wasn't missing something, he thinks he's not in the wrong at all. but its okay, I'm better than this:))

idk no. they have a past , when I confronted him about it before he tells me its just communication. he does this around 3am and tells me its because I'm not awake... uhmmm I like my sleep haha!! iv already made my mind up when I'm done with school and find a job hopefully by June! I'm out:) iv been dealing with it for too long.... but I just wanted to make sure I wasn't over reacting to these conversations and y'all are the only ones I can ask:) @ninarose08

it is cheating

Why he has to talk about sex to another girl, you don't know?

That is cheating...

Yes it's cheating

oh he talks about sex and the whole thing....but I was reading he had told this chick that flirting ( what he thinks he's doing) isn't cheating lol. and he said everyone does it.... uhm not me:) lol. I just found that funny and wrong @ninarose08

it depends how he flirts