Seriously if my boyfriend's dad calls one more time with his usual "oh pitiful me" routine I'm going…

Seriously if my boyfriend's dad calls one more time with his usual "oh pitiful me" routine I'm going to snap! He has all the free substance abuse help available to him and does not take it! Then he always has some excuse as to why the program wasn't successful. Its because you don't want to change! Just tell us that! Stop getting our goddamn hopes up telling us you're going to change for your grandson.