If this isn't the truth. I was having some issues with my grandma but I told my husband I can't trust anyone so I just deal with it. Small things but still. I can't imagine anyone doing any harm to my baby 😰
@proudmommyofdeilamonae, @mah_mammi I went to a interview last week and got the serving job on the spot. It's 50 miles away from where I currently live.... My son isn't even 2 months... I had everything planned out at the time about who to watch him, and then the plans fell through... Now if I decide to get the job I would have to leave my son with my fiancé who doesn't get home from work until 3am... I'm scared he won't be attentive to him because of how tired he will be since he gets home late and my son wakes up every 3 hrs to feed. I also don't want to leave my son with my fiancée grandma because she is crazy! She tried feeding my baby 7oz when he's only a month and a half! Also! She gave him tea behind my back! When she clearly knows I'm against all that... Then the grandma of my son wants to take off Friday's early from work to babysit him, but she's already rubbed in my face that my fiancé "supports" me. And I don't rely on her at all. One day my son had a blow out, and instead of changing his clothes she left him naked all night!!!!
I miss working. But every moment makes it worth not working. @proudmommyofdeilamonae @princevince I trust my parents and my sister but that's it. No one else
Exactly. My issues with my grandma are minute. Like I give her outfits for my son then she goes upstairs and gets more because she doesn't want something with so many snaps. Um hello I don't want to waste his good clothes and get them dirty when he's just at home. Lol. Things like making more bottles in smaller ones then there's so many for me to do when I come home and I work 12 hours. It's small things. I'd rather deal with those issues then something happen to him @mah_mammi
Aww I feel that my husband works 4pm-4am and I would be scared he wouldn't hear him wake up or anything. And I wouldn't trust her either what the hell. Left him naked? At 2 months? No I'd be having words with her.
@mah_mammi, I'm living with my finances family, and I'm hoping we will be able to move out to a 1bedroom soon with only his salary... He says he can do it financially... We NEED our own space
@mah_mammi, I try not to have words with her because unfortunately I'm living under her roof. BUT my patience running thin, so I will one of these days.
@mah_mammi, my fiancés family is always telling him I have to work to be able to move out. And I agree it would make things financially better, but I can't be leaving my son with people I don't trust or in a daycare at 2 months old. I feel like he should work more and provide for us while our son gets older, and while I find a career.
That's what I'm doing I'm in school now and stay home with our son when I graduate next year then I'll get a job because my son will be almost two when I graduate.
@mah_mammi, yah! I wanna go to school to become a medical insurance biller, but even that is like 1k and I hate asking my fiancé for money... I don't want him to one day rub anything in my face. If I get a server job I'll be stalling on any career c
@mombie2be, I completely understand my boyfriend is footing all of our bills and sometimes I don't trust him with her when gets off at 7 am we stay alone so it's us but sometimes I just want to trade places and let him feel it this is a 24hour /7days a week job raising a child is not easy.. also if you don't trust them I say don't let them watch you baby! I found a home day care nice older lady but I'm still afraid. and gave him tea? oh nooooo! you need to keep him away from her...I hope you get to move out soon and get your own space ..@mah_mammi, and yes I don't want to miss anything I feel like I'll be missing something lol I just my mom and her daddy no one else.
Have you looked into financial aid? Since you are not married yet you can get the majority of school paid for. I want to get a PH.D. In psychology but right now I'm doing business management
De'Ja😘·
same here ... Even went to a interview got offer and Job and cocked out
De'Ja😘·
cause I was scared for my baby
Mickaila Hickerson·
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I am the same way. So I stay at home/:
Mickaila Hickerson·
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Don't get me wrong though! I love being at home with my son 24/7
Brooke·
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If this isn't the truth. I was having some issues with my grandma but I told my husband I can't trust anyone so I just deal with it. Small things but still. I can't imagine anyone doing any harm to my baby 😰
De'Ja😘·
yea same here @mah_mammi I love it but I like working to
Sindy·
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@proudmommyofdeilamonae, @mah_mammi I went to a interview last week and got the serving job on the spot. It's 50 miles away from where I currently live.... My son isn't even 2 months... I had everything planned out at the time about who to watch him, and then the plans fell through... Now if I decide to get the job I would have to leave my son with my fiancé who doesn't get home from work until 3am... I'm scared he won't be attentive to him because of how tired he will be since he gets home late and my son wakes up every 3 hrs to feed. I also don't want to leave my son with my fiancée grandma because she is crazy! She tried feeding my baby 7oz when he's only a month and a half! Also! She gave him tea behind my back! When she clearly knows I'm against all that... Then the grandma of my son wants to take off Friday's early from work to babysit him, but she's already rubbed in my face that my fiancé "supports" me. And I don't rely on her at all. One day my son had a blow out, and instead of changing his clothes she left him naked all night!!!!
Mickaila Hickerson·
Мама сына-младенца
I miss working. But every moment makes it worth not working. @proudmommyofdeilamonae @princevince I trust my parents and my sister but that's it. No one else
Brooke·
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Exactly. My issues with my grandma are minute. Like I give her outfits for my son then she goes upstairs and gets more because she doesn't want something with so many snaps. Um hello I don't want to waste his good clothes and get them dirty when he's just at home. Lol. Things like making more bottles in smaller ones then there's so many for me to do when I come home and I work 12 hours. It's small things. I'd rather deal with those issues then something happen to him @mah_mammi
Mickaila Hickerson·
Мама сына-младенца
Aww I feel that my husband works 4pm-4am and I would be scared he wouldn't hear him wake up or anything. And I wouldn't trust her either what the hell. Left him naked? At 2 months? No I'd be having words with her.
Sindy·
Мама сына-младенца
@mah_mammi, I'm living with my finances family, and I'm hoping we will be able to move out to a 1bedroom soon with only his salary... He says he can do it financially... We NEED our own space
Mickaila Hickerson·
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Yea. I agree.@princevince.
Mickaila Hickerson·
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@princevince,
Sindy·
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@mah_mammi, I try not to have words with her because unfortunately I'm living under her roof. BUT my patience running thin, so I will one of these days.
Mickaila Hickerson·
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we live with my parents. Lol and I definitely know that feeling. I want my own space. But on his salary it would be tough where we live.
Mickaila Hickerson·
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It's hard to keep the mouth shut because of how hard they make it lol. My husband just speaks his mind to my parents. Lol they accept him for that.
Sindy·
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@mah_mammi, my fiancés family is always telling him I have to work to be able to move out. And I agree it would make things financially better, but I can't be leaving my son with people I don't trust or in a daycare at 2 months old. I feel like he should work more and provide for us while our son gets older, and while I find a career.
Mickaila Hickerson·
Мама сына-младенца
That's what I'm doing I'm in school now and stay home with our son when I graduate next year then I'll get a job because my son will be almost two when I graduate.
Sindy·
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@mah_mammi, yah! I wanna go to school to become a medical insurance biller, but even that is like 1k and I hate asking my fiancé for money... I don't want him to one day rub anything in my face. If I get a server job I'll be stalling on any career c
De'Ja😘·
@mombie2be, I completely understand my boyfriend is footing all of our bills and sometimes I don't trust him with her when gets off at 7 am we stay alone so it's us but sometimes I just want to trade places and let him feel it this is a 24hour /7days a week job raising a child is not easy.. also if you don't trust them I say don't let them watch you baby! I found a home day care nice older lady but I'm still afraid. and gave him tea? oh nooooo! you need to keep him away from her...I hope you get to move out soon and get your own space ..@mah_mammi, and yes I don't want to miss anything I feel like I'll be missing something lol I just my mom and her daddy no one else.
Sindy·
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@proudmommyofdeilamonae, yes you're right. I guess I have to sacrifice making some coins for myself for the sake of my baby. 🙃
Mickaila Hickerson·
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Have you looked into financial aid? Since you are not married yet you can get the majority of school paid for. I want to get a PH.D. In psychology but right now I'm doing business management