Having a real hard time picking out my daughter's swing & bouncer for her registry. The pack & play I got her is snugamonkey (from target) and the matching swing & bouncer looks like it could be gender neutral but more on the boys side. I want her to be in pretty girly pink stuff but I want it all to match. the pack & play is very feminine. ugh. don't get me started on the travel system. #mommyproblems. any suggestions?!?!