anyone else for some reason feel like they only hav one certain person OTHER than your SO that you…
anyone else for some reason feel like they only hav one certain person OTHER than your SO that you feel comfortable helping once you have the baby? I feel bad I feel this way, but I only want Jojos grandma and of course my Joe
Melinda ·
I did. It was my mom. & was so glad she was able to help me
missing268user·
it's just like a mental thing with me, like i could have tons of help but for some strange reason I only feel comfortable handing my baby girl to her great grandma I'm glad imnnot the only one
missing268user·
@mommyofacountryboy
Melinda ·
I think everyone has that one person. It helps just knowing they are close by.
Nicole Matthews·
I never wanted help from anyone honestly. other than my husband. anytime anyone else at all touched her it made my skin crawl. when people came over I'd take her and literally hide in a different room and lock the door. I had ppd pretty bad and people touching her made me so anxious I felt I could crawl right out of my own skin. it was just too much
missing268user·
@nicemmcha2015 honestly lol that would be even better if people left us alone. I don't blame you girl
Nicole Matthews·
@hermommy, yeah. but when babies are born mama's get shoved aside. no one stops to think what you're going thru or dealing with internally. having a baby is a huge change and it takes alot to get used to. but they only care about what they want.. who sees them more ect. like my husband's grandmother would get straight livid if she saw my mama's car here because she wanted to be with my daughter more than my mom was. it's so stupid. and I was over here like yall all can go to hell and leave me alone and stop touching my baby and piling up in my house tracking everywhere with dirty shoes for me to have to clean up. they never helped. they just wanted to be here to say they were.. like a show to outside people. but my mama and grandma actually did help.. they brought us food and everything for like 2 weeks. tell everyone you don't want visitors at home for the first week after she's born. that's what we are doing. maybe that'll help with the anxiety and baby blues.
missing268user·
@nicemmcha2015 that's what worries me they already do that😳 but I'll definitely do that luckily most don't know where we live😆
Nicole Matthews·
@hermommy, be thankful for that lmbo
missing268user·
Lol oh I am 100%