I am a little sad....I'm 34 weeks today with my second child. We did not plan a baby shower because we new either my…

I am a little sad....I'm 34 weeks today with my second child. We did not plan a baby shower because we new either my family that is here would not come or my husbands family would not because of the distance. My godsister told my husband she was going to through me a suprise one and then turned around and said she isn't because she doesn't know how to even plan one or have the time even though she is in her 30's-40's and has a kid of her own but says she don't know how to do one and said she didn't have the money but the very next day went to the beach and out to eat with her family and spent a lot of money. I friends that will do one either....I feel sad because my first born got one but my son won't.