Okayy moms !!! I need opinions on separate baby showers . My boyfriend actually has a large amount…

Okayy moms !!! I need opinions on separate baby showers . My boyfriend actually has a large amount of family & friends . & on my end only a handful of people are gonna be there ... That's what I suggested . My bf is okayy with whatever I chose but I wanna make sure I'm doing the right thing . Note , I don't know where I'm having it . Although my bf wants to have it at a restaurant. I'm okayy with that not a problem ! Just stretching myself thin . Because all this needs to be done in 10 weeks or less ! Please help ! Lol 😁😁