Well about a week ago we unblocked all our ex's on Facebook, His and Mine, just to show their curious asses how happy we are together!

Lol, (Note: We don't post our location or put on social where we currently are) Well, Last night after picking up tiles samples to remodel our kitchen, his phone buzzes, it's Facebook, "you have a friend request from... you're ex" of course he turns to me and says "will it be a problem to have her on my friends list", I reply " is having her on your friends list going to give you a chance of catching feelings for her again", he says "Hell No, I gotta baby on the way with the women I'm in love with, I ain't got time to be bullshittin with little hoes" lmfao, "alright then baby, accept it, this is my trusting you, just don't mess it up cause I can and will still leave and you will be unforgiven the first time something outta our relationship happens" he replies "I could never do anything to break up our family, you have given me the one thing no body else will be able to do, you have given me my first child" we kiss and decide on our favorite tiles. Later that night, we make our way to our favorite hometown bar, which isn't outta the normal for us to do on a Friday night, we have a tournament every Friday and we both have a love for pool, well after a few hours I notice his ex's best friend, I point it out so he isn't caught by surprise later, well of course when she notices us she calls her entire little sidekick crew, including his ex the one added to his Facebook earlier that day, and well of course she shows up, well he decides it's a good idea to fuck with his ex's head and play our song and drag me to the dance floor, then announces to the entire bar (extra detail, Fridays nights is Karaoke DJ) by grabbing the microphone and says " Attention Everyone, April 14th we find out what my beautiful wife is giving me and April 15th we will be having a party here so all you noise bitches make sure you're here April 15th!!" lmfao (extra detail, He hasn't even had one sip of his drink yet; completely sober) he kisses me and everyone claps and screams, of course not the ex's table tho, lol we walk back to our table (extra detail, we've been going to this same bar for years so we are basically family) Later on in the night after he has had a few shots, and more people have pulled in at their table, I catch him looking over in that direction several times, so I confront him, I just calmly say, "it bugs me that you keep looking over there" he says "I'm not looking at her, look Austin's right there and I'm trying to get him over here without going over there, I wanna take a shot with him, get off your period" I say "okaii, I didn't notice Austin over there" and finish out my game after a few games and a few of him taking shots after finally getting his friend Austin over to him, I approach again and say "sorry for being all emtional but you wouldn't like it if my ex was in here and everytime you got the chance to look at me I was looking at him, correct" he pounders on that thought a little then hugs me kisses my forehead and says "you know what I'm sorry that I didn't think about the way you would have perceived it, I shouldn't have snapped when I did but I thought you believed I wanted her more then you and that pissed me off, I'm sorry can I have a kiss and a hug" (extra detail, if I don't hug and kiss him he knows I don't forgive him, if I do then I forgive him. it's our coded relationship) I say, "I'm not saying it's okaii because it's not, I don't like being talked to the way you did but I will forgive you" and hug and kiss him. Then the rest of the night he is all eyes on me or the pool game and our 'family' around us, p.s. he's all over me as well!

Point of this long ass post; all a relationship needs in order to enjoy time together even in a shitty situation is to have communication with each other without jumping down each other's throats or starting a fight! Communication is key! It's all about the way you talk to one another and how you choose to approach the situation!! && Don't jump to conclusions without first talking to the other person!