I am so sick of doing everything, and I mean EVERYTHING! I have to do all the house work and look after our 3 cats…

I do everything all the housework and in my situation it never changed with my first child, so I'm guessing its not gonna change this time round either lol. I write a list of what to do for that day and do it when I feel like it through out that day, don't rush just take your time and take a break xx

Worst part is, he makes a mess as quickly as I tidy xx

@firsttimemummy21, be really careful when cleaning the litter trays Hun! That can be really dangerous in pregnancy! Xx

I know, but if I didn't do it they wouldn't get done! @beccastirlingx

that sounds like my partner.! i do everything i though it would change just having my first born but it didn't. hes 14 weeks old now and i still have to do everything myself!! 👎👎😕

I would refuse to do the litter tray, it can carry a parasite that leads to toxoplasmosis or something...... @firsttimemummy21

If I refused to do the litter tray it wouldn't be done at all and the flat would stink :/ I tried getting him to do it in my first trimester but I had to nag him so much I just gave up and did it myself... we have 3 indoor cats so it needs doing A LOT. Also I looked it up and its only really outdoor cats who carry the parasite xx @mrsripper

That's quite concerning on a support level hun. ... I don't have cats so you may be ok huni, I read it on one of the apps that pregnant women shouldn't change litter trays .... have you tried talking to ur partner? @firsttimemummy21 I hope he starts helping you xx