Mini vent/rant 😒 My child's father calls a good 2-3 hours ago to ask what I'm doing and when I tell…

Mini vent/rant 😒 My child's father calls a good 2-3 hours ago to ask what I'm doing and when I tell him cleaning out some stuff to make it easier to toss and moving stuff around, he offers to come help since he's off today and because he knows it's heavy stuff and I'm doing it all alone because I don't have help like that. I call him to see when he's coming because space is getting tight with bags full of stuff that I didn't expect to be so heavy that I've already hurt myself trying to move twice, and of course now he's not answering and never sent a courtesy text if he's unable to make it or what time he'll be here by smh. And he wonders why I say I can and will happily do everything by myself.