You can use witch hazel to clean it, let it air dry, then put some hemorrhoid ointment on it. You may want to wear a pad because it will rub of some on your underwear.

thanks ladies. would epsom salt help in the bath?

I've had the most amazing pregnancy and the first symptom I have is a swollen ass hole! smh. it's so uncomfortable. Baby is putting pressure.

there's actually a cream for it as well!

Take a warm bath and the rest for a little bit. that's what I did