I feel bad for my mom cause my brother (18) & sister (15) do whatever the fuck they want but it's…
I feel bad for my mom cause my brother (18) & sister (15) do whatever the fuck they want but it's her fault she gives them everything my sister wants a phone she gives it to her she wants a bed set she gets it my brother wants a car what does she do ? Goes & buy him a car then says she only give him half when my brother is a pot head & doesn't have not 1$ saved in his bank account & they disrespect her everyday all day don't listen for shit having friends over every single day seeing the same kids face everyday gets tiring but it's no one fault but hers I give her advice & she doesn't listen it's to late to try & turn around 2 selfish ass brats who think that she just doesn't want to have no friends it's ok to hang out with your friends but being together from the moment you step out of to until you go to bed it's to much, I wasn't an easy child either but nothing compared to my brother and sister & my mom started looking after me once I was like 13 or 14 since I was raised by my grandparents since a baby
Nichole·
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This sounds exactly how my sister is n its sad but yet I get a phone call whenever she decides to act up smh
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
It's so sad cus my mom does everything to keep them happy so they won't say she's a bad mom & still have no respect & do whatever they want she can't even work in peace cus my sister has a phone & doesn't even know how to answer it. I tell her it's to late to try and change my brother around even my sister the only thing she can do is put my sister in a program even if it getting a case worker & see how she like that @cheche27
LoveLove, Mrs.M🎀·
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woow that must have been hard for you to deal with each time ..i didn't even get my first cp till i was 19 not to mention my brother's old cp ..omg kids these days smh
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I don't live with my mom I have my own place , but when I did live with them my sister wouldn't even go out cus she knows how I am it started since I moved out but my brother been like that for a while now @belle_116
LoveLove, Mrs.M🎀·
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ughh i feel bad for your mom dealing with two ungrateful brats (pardon my reference) ..but like you said, she choose to give them whatever they want ..it's hers to control them but they seem to be the ones have control over her
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
No that's fine cus that's what they are, I try and give her advice & who cares if they think she's a bad mom cus I know she's not all the shit she does for them not even me at their age had everything the ask for cus I never liked bothering my mom & if they don't get what they want they'll be walking around looking like blow fish all pissed and shit.. That's why my boys have to learn from now cus I will not put up with what my mom is going through with them cus it's crazy @belle_116
LoveLove, Mrs.M🎀·
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i don't think she's bad ..no mother is bad unless they meant to out their own kids in harm ..she's just doing what she think us right ..and this is why we really hope and we'll try to be a better parents to our own.
missing273user·
That's how my SO mother is, she enables his brother, buys him a car and he gets in an accident and then expects her to pay for everything. She probably wants them to have everything, but if they're not doing well in school and respecting her and her household, she has to put her foot down. If not, it will only get worse.
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I tell her but she doesn't listen & im not saying because I'm jealous or whatever because that's not even the case I have my own place my car & have some good stuff but I say it for their own good.. You know.. @mommytobesari
missing273user·
I hear you. It sucks but if you've tried talking to them and her and nothings changed, you can't keep feeling bad for her.
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
Yea even my boyfriend said it he said you've tried talking to her giving her advice and she's not taking it. You've tried & there's nothing else you can do but let her deal with on her own @mommytobesari