Me and OH have just has a massive argument! I've lost out on near enough £600 due to being signed…

its a massive change for you both having baby on way and it wont of sunk in yet properly that things are to change..

Trust me it's sunk in for me, I just don't think it has for him, the thing that's getting to be is he's blaming me for my anxiety and depression and making out I want to be like this. He's turned really horrible, shouting at me and making me feel like everything is my fault :( I'm going back to work next week even tho I know it will just make me worse but I'm doing it because I know we need the money, he's just being really horrible right now @tg123456789 xx

i know what u mean. it sunk in for me when found out at 4 weeks. men are completely diff. wont sink in untill after when thinking shit should of started saving ready for arrival. again in regards to anxiety and depression mines in overload ive gone nuts. have u spoke to midwife to see if worth treating with medication? not best answet but sometimes if really bad u have to. i have and it wasnt easiest decision but i know would of been worse if didnt treat it. xx

I'm having to go to counselling :/ he knows this but at the moment he's making my anxiety go through the roof putting the blame for everything on me :/ @tg123456789 xx

goto your mums for couple of days it will make it hit home and make him realise xx

I've tried to leave for one night and all I get is him ringing, texting and turning up at my mums to apologise but then he's the same in a few days and blames it on stress :/ I'll be ok, I think I just need to leave him be for now and just stay out his way @tg123456789 xx