My doctor just told me it's an eptopic pregnancy and I should terminate..but the little bean had a beating heart and…

Get an second opinion

My mom had an ectopic pregnancy in her fallopian tube and and it ruptured and she had to have surgery to get the baby removed. She could have died. It's totally up to you what you do because I'm very against abortion but if you're at that much of a risk, I would consider it.

I didn't have this but my sister did so she terminated she has another child and she can't risk loosing her life. It's your choice though

I had an extopic before. but didn't know,I almost die,because the baby wasn't in the right place,it was in the tube. it got rupture because the fetus had gotten bigger.all I know it was the worst pain I've felt in my life,I lost one of my tube thought I couldn't have babies.,..well the only choice will be to terminate. the doc give u sumn for that I think.mines went too far I had to do surgery😢

I would personally get a second opinion and then make your decision. Ectopic pregnancy can't be saved though, my cousin had one and caught it very late and it almost killed her.

My cousin had one and didn't know she was pregnant until it ruptured and it almost killed her. She was in icu on life support. It's very dangerous. I would weigh the options very carefully. You don't want to put your own life in danger

She called in another physician from the office. They both said eptopic pregnancy and that I should terminate. I don't know if I can or not..

my cousin was told that she had an ectopic pregnancy and that she should terminate but she decided to wait a couple more days and when she went back the baby had moved amd now she has a beautiful daughter!!! I would wait a couple of days and go to a different doctor's.

and the doctors don't consider it a pregnancy also.. because its not in the uterus.. ur only choice is to remove it if u don't want to do major surgery and risk ur life

I am really wanting to wait to decide anything until my 8 week ultrasound.

I really do appreciate all you ladies leaving comments.. I'm so beside myself right now with my feelings and emotions.

I've never had one but I know for a fact ectopics are no joke. Not only can they kill you they can make conceiving in the future much harder if your tube ruptures.

I've heard of some women having to get ovaries and follopian tubes and sometimes even their whole uterus removed because the tube ruptured and caused infection. I know you really want to keep it and hold on to hope, but in the end, it's going to end the same and the longer you wait, the more likely you could rupture and possibly lose the chance to have future children. I know how hard it is :(

mine was ..the fetus died already by the time i hit exactly 8wks ..besides, the doctor said that eve if the baby survive for 3 months it would still be dangerous for both of us and that i could die too( mine wasn't in the tube though. it was just o the upper outside of the yolk sac.) ..it was devastating to hear my doctor say that but there's nothing we could do. I'd say it's better you survive and let go of that angel than than what would be left if your life is on risk for something that can't survive? up to you ..hope you do the best decision for yourself. wish you luck and God bless!

I had one and almost bled to death because they just bought it in time there is no way for an ectopic pregnant to make it. I was 8wks when they found mine.

I had to have surgery to remove baby and my tube. only have one tube left.

My friend passed away from it. She caught it to late and it ruptured her tubes and bled internally. It's not a joke... And even if it doesn't kill you, it will make conceiving very difficult in the future. It's such a hard decision and very emotional and painful but you have to think about your own health Hun. There's no way it can be saved. Good luck with everything and will be keeping you in my prayers ❤️

I had an ectopic pregnancy back in 2011. If it truly is an ectopic there is no way to save the pregnancy. They can give you a shot of methotrexate if it's early enough and if that works, you can keep both of your tubes (which helps you have a healthy pregnancy later on). It's heartbreaking and I mourned for a long time after, if you need any one to talk to, please don't hesitate. BTW I have a healthy 2-year-old daughter and am 30 weeks pregnant with my little guy, so you can have a healthy pregnancy after an ectopic.

i had an ectopic and i lost it at 5wks didnt even know i was pregnant until the pain began. worse pain of my life. they gave me a dose of 1000mg of methotrexate and monitored my hormones for a month. best choice you can make is terminating and trying again. so sorry ur going thru this but better days will come

I had an ectopic pregnancy too.. I didn't know about it until I felt the pain. They had to surgery to remove the baby and a fallopian tube. I had internal bleeding. I know it's a devastating situation but don't loose hope. Hope you make the best decision and wishing you the best of luck!

My prayers are with you.

Thanks for the prayers I'm praising God even though I don't understand..