although I'm happy for all the moms whose SO is in the picture and supportive... it's super…
although I'm happy for all the moms whose SO is in the picture and supportive... it's super depressing because my BD said all this shit about being around and giving our daughter his name after years of saying he wanted me to have his Child... then once she was here he up and disappeared .... like he has 3 other kids but somehow our daughter together isn't good enough.... bullshit....
sometimes it's just really annoying seeing so many posts about supportive SO... though I am happy your kids will have both their parents... Just sad my daughter will have to fight for hers... and eventually ask questions about him and never know her other aunts uncles brother or 2 sisters.... it makes me want to cry because family is so important to me
Chelsea·
Мама сына (1 год)
Girl I am in the same boat as you. I am a single mommy of a 18 month old. His "donor" has never met him a day in his life. He has 3 other siblings he won't ever get to meet. 😔 My BD said the same thing but as soon as I turned 10 weeks he was gone and never looked bad. @mahaylasmomma
Tiara✨·
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Yah I understand how you feel about wanting a family and wanting your daughter to have that. Of coarse you do, but she also deserves a good, shit great dad. If he can leave that easily he doesn't deserve her or you. Your baby girl is beautiful and she'll only make you better and greater. You two will have the best bond. And maybe in your life another man will come and take his place. But you definitely deserve a father to her that's genuine and REALLY loves her and you.
Tiara✨·
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@mahaylasmomma, it'll be ok Hun
Tiara✨·
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Same for you @gpbmommie
Mishell Dickson·
Мама сына-младенца
thanks I just get in my feelings somedays
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
mama I'm so sorry you have to go thru this @mahaylasmomma some men are just plain mean.... your little one is absolutely beautiful and it's his loss for not being there....
Mishell Dickson·
Мама сына-младенца
@belly1996, I know your right... the wounds he left are still so fresh
Mishell Dickson·
Мама сына-младенца
@sarahdrew, thank you, he even lied to me about having cancer... like who does that
Chelsea·
Мама сына (1 год)
@belly1996, thank you girl. And @mahaylasmomma I understand completely, I get in my feelings more than I would like to admit. But we have to remain strong for our babies. When our babies get older that will appreciate everything we went through and have done for them.
Tiara✨·
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And it's OK to be in your feelings and still be hurt, but I felt like you needed some encouraging words at the end of this shitty ass dark tunnel lol @mahaylasmomma
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mahaylasmomma, that is just wrong on so many levels.... that shouldn't come out of someone's mouth unless they truly do have it
Mishell Dickson·
Мама сына-младенца
@gpbmommie, Your so right who knew a baby could be my best friend I love her so much
Chelsea·
Мама сына (1 год)
mm ahaylasmomma, I never thought my son could be my best friend, my rock, my glue that holds me together, my everything. Girl I know this is easier said then done because I'm going through it but let him drown in his own misery. You have the greatest, most beautiful blessing. That's his loss.
Mishell Dickson·
Мама сына-младенца
thanks for all this encouragement this is why I love our preggie community